The story behind secretswingerlust.com

In 2019, we had a vision: to create a trusted platform for swingers worldwide. After a disappointing experience at a swinger club abroad, we realized there was a need for a quality guide to the best swinger clubs and resorts. Secretswingerlust.com was born from our desire to help like-minded couples discover top-tier clubs and avoid unpleasant surprises.

Why Secretswingerlust.com?

During a short getaway in 2019, we decided to visit a swinger club abroad. We spent hours researching on Google, trying to find a club that met our expectations. But the process was far from straightforward:

  • How do you sign up for a club?
  • What is the dress code?
  • What should you expect upon arrival?

After arriving at what we thought would be a luxurious and exclusive swinger club, we were left disappointed. The facilities were worn down, and the atmosphere was anything but welcoming. This experience inspired us to create Secretswingerlust.com—a platform that ensures no swinger couple has to face such a disappointing evening again.

Our mission is simple: to highlight the best swinger clubs worldwide, ensuring unforgettable experiences for couples who are passionate about the swinger lifestyle.

 

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How Do We Select the Swinger Clubs We Visit?

Finding high-quality swinger clubs is no easy task. The best clubs often prioritize discretion, making them harder to find through online searches. Here’s how we select the clubs we review:

  • Tips from Fellow Swingers:
    We receive numerous recommendations at info@secretswingerlust.com from swingers who’ve had amazing experiences.
  • Systematic Reviews:
    We investigate each club, visiting anonymously to ensure an unbiased experience.

  • Multiple Options in One Area:
    When we travel, we visit several clubs in the same area to provide comprehensive reviews.
    This method ensures that only the best swinger clubs make it to our site, helping couples find trustworthy venues that deliver exceptional experiences.

How We Travel and Review Clubs

As a young couple with full-time jobs, we plan each trip meticulously. Here’s how we approach our swinger adventures:

  • Planning the Destination:
    We choose destinations based on tips from our readers.
    If in Europe, we pack our car and our German Shepherd, who loves exploring new places with us.
  • Exploring the Area:
    Upon arrival, we spend time getting to know the location, so our reviews can include tips on the surrounding area.
  • Visiting Clubs Anonymously:
    We arrive unannounced and enjoy the club like any other swinger couple. At the end of the night, we leave a card indicating whether the club meets our standards.
    This thorough process ensures that our reviews are honest, unbiased, and valuable to our readers.

 

What It Takes for a Club to Get on Our List

To make it onto Secretswingerlust.com, a club must meet several criteria:

  • High-Quality Facilities: Cleanliness and hygiene are non-negotiable.
  • Appealing Atmosphere: The club must attract friendly, respectful, and engaging guests.
  • A “Wow Factor”: Clubs that go above and beyond earn higher ratings, such as our silver and gold stars.

While some clubs may meet our standards but fall short in other areas—such as low attendance or excessive waiting times—we reserve our recommendations for clubs that offer a truly unforgettable experience.

 

Why We Don’t Review Subpar Clubs

We often receive inquiries about clubs that don’t appear on our site. Our policy is simple: if we don’t have something positive to say, we don’t say anything at all.

Every club we review is visited anonymously, and while we strive for fairness, our experience may not always represent the club’s usual standard. Instead of focusing on the negatives, we highlight only the clubs that provide exceptional experiences for swingers.

 

How You Can Support Secretswingerlust.com

We’re a young couple on a mission to improve the swinger community by sharing honest and trustworthy reviews. Running this platform and traveling to review clubs is a passion project, and here’s how you can support us:

  • Send Us Tips:
    If you know of a fantastic swinger club or resort, email us at info@secretswingerlust.com.
  • Support Through Our Style Tables:
    When you make a purchase via our style recommendations, you directly support our website.
  • Book Through Our Links:
    Use our hotel suggestions when traveling. Booking through these links helps us maintain the site without compromising our integrity.

We don’t accept payments from clubs to be listed on our site, ensuring that our recommendations remain unbiased and trustworthy.

 

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